The year was 1992. The world watched as Kevin Costner and Whitney Houston, two of Hollywood’s biggest stars, ignited the screen with their undeniable chemistry in “The Bodyguard.” But their connection transcended the script, evolving into a deep, protective friendship that extended far beyond the confines of the film set.
Costner, known for his quiet strength and on-screen charisma, recently opened up about his unique bond with Houston during an appearance on Dax Shepard’s podcast, “Armchair Expert.” He revealed that his role as Whitney’s bodyguard in the film became a reality off-screen, a promise he made to safeguard the iconic singer during a tumultuous time in her life.
Kevin Costner and Whitney Houston formed a deep bond while filming "The Bodyguard."
A Friendship Forged in the Spotlight: Costner’s Promise to Protect
Costner recounted how the film’s director, Mick Jackson, seemed overwhelmed by Houston’s immense fame. Recognizing the pressure she was under, Costner stepped in, taking on a protective, almost producer-like role for his co-star. He understood the weight of expectation on her shoulders and felt compelled to shield her from the often-intrusive glare of the spotlight.
“I loved her,” Costner confessed, dispelling any notion of a hidden romance. His affection for Houston was genuine, a deep respect for her unparalleled talent and vulnerability. He saw past the global superstar to the woman who needed a friend, a confidant, and a protector.
This protective instinct led Costner to make a promise to Houston and her manager, Clive Davis, after early screenings of “The Bodyguard” didn’t resonate well with test audiences. He assured them, with unwavering confidence, that the film would be a success, a testament to Houston’s talent. “She’s always gonna love me, in the song,” Costner stated, referring to the film’s iconic soundtrack hit. “I was always gonna keep my promise to her.”
“I Basically Embraced It. I Was Her Imaginary Bodyguard”
Costner’s promise transcended mere words. He understood the unique pressures faced by someone like Houston, an artist whose every move was scrutinized by the world. He became her shield, her confidant, and her constant.
He recalled a pivotal moment when he set boundaries, ensuring Houston felt safe and supported. Aware of the constant presence of entourages, he made it clear that while he would ensure her comfort and safety, he wouldn’t impose. “Look, you can’t have an entourage,” Costner told her, “but I’m gonna take care of you if there’s a person important to you.” This person turned out to be Robyn Crawford, a close friend of Houston’s.
Kevin Costner and Whitney Houston's connection extended beyond the screen.
This protective gesture was more than just a kind act; it was a defining characteristic of their relationship. “I basically embraced it,” Costner admitted. “I was her imaginary bodyguard.” He understood that their connection, magnified by the media, provided a sense of security and comfort for Houston.
A Friendship That Echoed Long After the Credits Rolled
Costner’s friendship with Houston extended far beyond the filming of “The Bodyguard.” They remained close for over two decades, their bond weathering the storms of fame, scrutiny, and personal struggles. When Houston tragically passed away in 2012, it was Costner who delivered a heartfelt eulogy at her funeral, a testament to the depth of their connection.
He recounted how he was initially hesitant to deliver the eulogy but was persuaded by Dionne Warwick, Houston’s cousin, who sensed the weight of grief he carried. Costner understood the importance of honoring his friend’s legacy, of painting a true picture of the woman behind the icon.
When network executives requested he shorten his eulogy to accommodate commercial breaks, Costner stood firm. “They can play the commercial while I’m talking, I don’t care,” he recalled. His eulogy, a poignant tribute to a once-in-a-generation talent, lasted 17 minutes, every word a testament to a friendship that transcended the screen.
Kevin Costner's eulogy at Whitney Houston's funeral was a testament to their enduring friendship.
Kevin Costner’s relationship with Whitney Houston is a poignant reminder that even amidst the glitz and glamour of Hollywood, genuine connection and profound empathy can flourish. It’s a story of a promise kept, a friendship cherished, and a loss deeply felt by those who bore witness to its authenticity.
